Some people joke too much and it becomes a habit for them. This is the opposite of the serious nature which is the characteristic of the believers. Joking is a break, a rest from ongoing seriousness and striving; it is a little relaxation for the soul. ‘Umar ibn ‘Abd al-‘Azeez (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: “Fear joking, for it is folly and generates grudges.”
Imaam al-Nawawi (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: “The kind of joking which is forbidden is that which is excessive and persistent, for it leads to too much laughter and hardening of the heart, it distracts from remembrance of Allaah, and it often leads to hurt feelings, generates hatred and causes people to lose respect and dignity. But whoever is safe from such dangers, then that which the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to do is permissible for him.”
Sa’d ibn Abi Waqqaas said: “Set a limit to your jokes, for going to extremes makes you lose respect and incites the foolish against you.”
The amount of joking should be like the amount of salt in one’s food.
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Do not laugh too much, for laughing too much deadens the heart.” (Saheeh al-Jaami’, 7312)
‘Umar ibn al-Khattaab (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: “Whoever laughs too much or jokes too much loses respect, and whoever persists in doing something will be known for it.”
So beware of joking, for it “causes a person to lose face after he was thought of as respectable, and it brings him humiliation after esteem.”
A man said to Sufyaan ibn ‘Uyaynah (may Allaah be pleased with him), “Joking is not right, it is to be denounced.” He replied, “Rather it is Sunnah, but only for those who know how to do it and do it at the appropriate time.”
Nowadays, although the ummah needs to increase the love between its individual members and to relieve itself of boredom, it has gone too far with regard to relaxation, laughter and jokes. This has become a habit which fills their gatherings and wastes their time, so their lives are wasted and their newspapers are filled with jokes and trivia.
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “If you knew what I know, you would laugh little and weep much.” In Fath al-Baari it says: “What is meant by knowledge here has to do with the might of Allaah and His vengeance upon those who disobey Him, and the terrors that occur at death, in the grave and on the Day of Resurrection).
Muslim men and women have to be inclined to choose righteous and serious friends in their lives, who will help them to make good use of their time and strive for the sake of Allaah with seriousness and steadfastness, good and righteous people whose example they can follow. Bilaal ibn Sa’d said: “I saw them [the Sahaabah] jokingly pretending to fight over some goods, and laughing with one another, but when night came they were like monks.”
Ibn ‘Umar (may Allaah be pleased with him) was asked, “Did the Companions of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) laugh?” He said, “Yes, and the faith in their hearts was like mountains.”
So you have to follow the example of such people, who were knights by day and monks (i.e., devoted worshippers) by night.
May Allaah keep us, you and our parents safe on the Day of the Greatest Terror, those to whom the call will go out on that great Day:
“Enter Paradise, no fear shall be on you, nor shall you grieve”
[al-A’raaf 7:49 – interpretation of the meaning]
Source: http://www.islamcan.com/islamic-jokes.shtml
Categories: Humour, Laughter is the best medicine
Hi,
My partner is Muslim.I always say “It’s better to laugh than to cry”. Why is that so hard to accept? I definitely appreciate your position of trying to have Islam and the West Talk About It.
So my partner has a Severe problem with Anger/Authority. Is That what All of you are about? I had to Look it Up in the Dictionary! Does Not Compute!! I do Not Understand Anger/Violence and Authority Issues. I am all Peace and Love. What’s Going On??
And Shariah Law?? Please Explain.
Marianne, what the article really means is that joking and laughter should be done in moderation and one can love and have peace, too. Meaning that one should not make jokes at the expense of others, etc.
Islam looks at life as to be lived responsibly and not to make a jest of things all the time.
The purpose of life in Islam is to worship God (this does not mean that we are supposed to be on our prayer mats the whole time), which means that we have to live our life being aware that He sees our every action, word and thought.
Therefore, while we can joke (it’s not forbidden), it should be limited with the above mentioned guidance.
Also violence/anger is not part of Islam.
Re Sharia law – what exactly do you mean by it? Can you elaborate more fully, please?
Your partner seems to be giving you a complete misconception of Islam which in the first place means PEACE! And love – it also means to love our fellow beings (including animals, etc.,), and live with them in tolerance, understanding and humility. So, I don’t know where your partner got hold of anger/violence, etc. These are very unislamic and foreign to the religion of Islam.
Btw, love and peace does not always translate into jokes and laughter.
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