Lawyer fights ‘widow sex’ tradition in Malawi

Source: CNN

(CNN) — Lawyer and human rights activist Seodi White has long been an outspoken campaigner for gender justice in Malawi, a country where half its women are married before the age of 18.

As the head of the Malawian chapter of Women in Law in Southern Africa (WLSA), White is at the forefront of the battle against inequality, traveling around the country to promote education and to stop young girls from giving up on school and marrying in their early teens.

But the prominent activist, who is herself the mother of a young daughter, is not only concerned with the rights of teenage girls. She is also targeting cultural practices that harm older, vulnerable women in Malawi. One such custom, prevalent in the southern tip of the landlocked country, is “widow cleansing,” a traditional practice in which a widow is expected to have sexual relations, “in order to cleanse her,” explains White.”There is a belief that if she does not sleep with someone, the spirit of her dead husband will come and visit upon her and her family will be cursed,” she adds.White says that the practice is not forced upon widows. Instead, she says, the tradition has become so much part of the culture that widows themselves call for it.”It’s a mindset issue,” says White. “Even the widows, they’ve told me, ‘I don’t want to die, I don’t want a curse to come to my husband.’ They cry to be cleansed.”

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  1. Sometimes old customs tend to continue even after conversion to Islam and in that case people will jump to blame relegion /Islam for it.

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