‘I was born polygamous’: Outrage as Muslim who runs ‘second wife’ dating site says wanting multiple partners is as natural as being gay

  • Azad Chaiwala runs two websites Secondwife.com and Polygamy.com
  • Claimed polygamous men are born that way on Good Morning Britain
  • Piers Morgan called him ‘a bit randy’ and called site backdoor Sharia law
  • Aaliya Brown, site member, defended woman’s choice to be second wife 

An Muslim who runs polygamy matchmaking websites today claimed men who want a second wife are born that way – just as homosexuals are born gay.

Azad Chaiwala caused outrage as he said he was ‘coming out’ on Good Morning Britain, as he defended his websites Polygamy.com and Secondwife.com, which now have more than 100,000 members.

He told Piers Morgan: ‘There’s an institute in this country called marriage and we must admit it breaks down because of infidelity and there are a lot of men, decent men, who it’s hard for them because of the advertising and the media, and they don’t want to have affairs but they have an urge.

Azad Chaiwala (pictured, right) caused outrage today as he said he was 'coming out' on Good Morning Britain, comparing being polygamous to being gay

Azad Chaiwala (pictured, right) caused outrage today as he said he was ‘coming out’ on Good Morning Britain, comparing being polygamous to being gay

He told Piers Morgan on Good Morning Britain (pictured) that he was 'giving strength' to other polygamous men by admitting that he was born wanting a second wife

He told Piers Morgan on Good Morning Britain (pictured) that he was ‘giving strength’ to other polygamous men by admitting that he was born wanting a second wife

Sitting next to Aaliya Brown, who is seeking a second husband, he told Morgan and Suzanna Reid that men's sexual needs are 'exploited by the media' 

Sitting next to Aaliya Brown, who is seeking a second husband, he told Morgan and Suzanna Reid that men’s sexual needs are ‘exploited by the media’

‘It’s just like we say that a person is born gay and comes out at some point, I believe that I was born polygamous and I came out and I am giving everybody strength to be that.’

The claim was a response to Piers Morgan’s claim that a site promoting polygamy, which is illegal in the UK, was an attempt to introduce Sharia law through the backdoor.

Morgan said: ‘There will be a lot of people in this country saying “well hang on, we don’t have Sharia law here, we don’t have multiple wives for husbands. You want to have your cake and eat it and if you want to have this, go and live in a Muslim country where its law that you can do what your doing”.’

He later told Chaiwala: ‘What you’re basically doing is you’re trying to couch being a bit randy with some far more homely principle.’

Chaiwala admitted that he too was looking for a second wife but his current bride was not 'entirely happy' about it

Chaiwala admitted that he too was looking for a second wife but his current bride was not ‘entirely happy’ about it

The interview caused outrage on social media. Lindsey Pierce said she was ‘gobsmacked and appalled’, while Diane Campbell called his websites ‘just wrong’.

One Twitter user, Miss Zaker, wrote: ‘Disgusted after watching #GMB (Good Morning Britain) #AzadChaiwala promoting Muslim – yet another example of a ‘Muslim’ man twisting words to suit himself.’

Joanna Jackson wrote: ‘How is he even allowed to have this website? Polygamy is illegal. What a crock.’

Another user wrote: ‘Really creepy segment on ITV #GMB second wife site? What on earth is happening in this country?’

Others suggested the entrepreneur should be arrested for creating the websites, because they promote polygamy, which is illegal in Britain.

Although Mr Chaiwala claims that people can have second wives in faith-based services, or civil ceremonies, although they will not be recognised under UK law.

Azad Chaiwala also admitted that he himself is looking for a second wife, and that his current bride is ‘not entirely happy’ about the idea.

He also admitted that despite running a £20-a-month service with more than 100,000 members, he has not yet been able to find a bride because he is ‘very particular’.

Viewers said they were 'gobsmacked' and 'appalled' by the idea of Mr Chaiwala's website

Viewers said they were ‘gobsmacked’ and ‘appalled’ by the idea of Mr Chaiwala’s website

Mr Chaiwala claimed that he had so far been unsuccessful because he was looking close to home, because his second wife would have to move to be with him and he did not want her to be far from family.

Sitting alongside Aaliya Brown, who is signed up as a potential second wife on one of the sites, he claimed that family’s are ruined because men’s ‘sexual needs’ are exploited by the media.

He claimed that men are more ‘sexual’ than women, but was interrupted by Miss Brown, who argued that actually they are just ‘more polygamous’.

Miss Brown (left), who is looking for a second wife, admitted that it was a 'compramise'

Miss Brown (left), who is looking for a second wife, admitted that it was a ‘compramise’

Miss Brown was then questioned by Suzanna Reid, who asked her why she would want to be anyone’s second wife rather than a sole partner.

‘It’s a matter of filling up a void. What would I rather be, would I rather be lonely or sharing a good husband,’ she told the presenter, who then asked if what she is actually doing is compromising.

Miss Brown added: ‘Sometimes it could be a compromise but other times…it depends on where your mind is at and what your looking for.

‘If your goal in life is to find that one true life, that soulmate, that’s what your going to look for but if your mindset is for something else…’

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7 replies

  1. Why should ‘I was born that way’ cause outrage? What should cause outrage is the (usual) question: ‘What was wrong with the first wife’? Of course there was nothing wrong with the first wife. In fact men may want a second wife because the first wife is so nice. If she was not the men would prefer to be bachelors, is it not so?

  2. The whole ‘outrage’ is actually just ‘grammatical’. Why? Let’s take the example of ‘gay marriage’. Why can’t the guys just invent a new word? similar to ‘partner’ rather than ‘marriage’ (as marriage was for thousands of years only meant for unions between the different sexes). Regarding polygamous ‘marriages’. OK, they are not legal in UK or the rest of the West. Therefore here they are not ‘polygamous marriages’ but ‘polygamous partnerships’. There is no law that limits the number of partners anyone can have in the West. So, what is all the fuss about?

  3. I cannot understand these people who, on the one hand, insist that polygamous marriages should not be recognized yet on the other they still have and/or keep mistresses while married to ‘one’ woman.

    The above sites are just making the whole issue ‘legal’ from the woman’s point of view. As a mistress, she’d have no rights while as a wife…. even as a 2nd, 3rd or 4th, she would have those rights. The same as the 1st wife, in fact!

    Islam is a practical religion which also makes sure of women’s rights.

  4. Well, as long as they obey the law of the land , they do not hurt each other or their children, what ever they do in bedroom, is none of my business. It is between them and God. I do not agree with their opinion but I Will defend their right to have freethinking, as long as they do not hurt anybody physically.
    There must be sexual education provided to them to avoid disease.

  5. 90% men keep mistresses if they have a high sexual drive. The question is would a woman want to be a hoo*er or a wife with rights and financial security, not to mention family support?

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