Myopia of the Muslim Mullahs has shown again that every woman and every moderate man should seek secularism
Source: Express Tribune
By Qaiser Butt
ISLAMABAD: The Council of Islamic Ideology (CII) has declared it un-Islamic for courts to use ‘Khula’ (right of a woman to seek divorce) without the consent of a husband to dissolve a marriage.
The powerful religious body observed on Thursday that courts were dissolving nikkahs in the name of ‘Khula’, which is not correct since only the husband has the right to grant Khula after which courts can dissolve marriage contracts.
Urging civil courts to differentiate between ‘Khula’ and a unilateral dissolution of marriage through a court order, the CII said several women who had dissolved their marriages using ‘Khula’ were still not certain if their marriage had actually been dissolved.
Khula is prerogative of husband, not courts, says CII
“While Shariah has explicitly defined the framework and procedure for Khula, it has not been defined in the country’s existing marriage laws,” the CII observed.
Therefore, a civil court decreeing dissolution of marriage on a wife’s plea without her husband’s consent, under the name of Khula, would be in violation of the Holy Quran and Sunnah, the council observed.
The council also observed that denying a husband the right to appeal against such a ‘unilateral’ court decision would also be unjust as per Islamic law.
According to a majority of ulemas, a wife has to forfeit her financial rights when ‘Khula’ is used to dissolve a marriage. However, the two can reach an agreement outside the law if a mutual understanding is established.
As per the Dissolution of Muslim Marriage Act passed in 1939, “Judicial khula is allowed to be authorised without the husband’s consent if the wife has agreed to forfeit her financial rights. Marriage is not considered a sacrament among Muslims but rather a civil contract with spiritual and moral undertones.”
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“Therefore, legally, the marriage can be dissolved for a good cause. The wife has the right to dissolve a marriage on grounds of Khula if she decides she cannot live with her husband [any longer].”
So she can dissolve the marriage, but she looses all her financial rights? How many woman can afford to do this? Is this justice? Better yet how can this be love?
Once again ignorance rules.
Islam allows the dissolution of marriage.
When man wants to break away he can pronounce divorce in the presence of two witnesses. Following divorce many financial matters such as ‘haq mahar’, custody of children and alimony are decided by the courts.
When a woman wants to break away she has to get khula. Khula is also divorce but the woman files for it in a court of law. Husband has no say in the process. The wife only has to say that she wants divorce and the court is obligated to grant it. So why use a court in case of the woman.
Islam recognizes that women are in a disadvantaged position in the society. Men and their families can cause serious financial, emotional and other harm to a woman who wants to break her marriage. Islam asks the woman to run this process through the court to provide her with legal support and help in this difficult situation when she can really use some help.
Woman does not lose any financial rights. The matters of ‘haq mahar’, child custody and alimony are decided exactly as after divorce by a man.
Anyone who says otherwise needs to go read the Quran.